Monday, November 10, 2008

It's Officially Official

As far as the law is concerned, Joe and I are officially hitched! I know it may seem like a shotgun union, but to us it's just a formality--in our mind, and in the eyes of all states that recognize common-law unions, we've been married for four years. But now we have the license to back us up in case of any medical or family emergencies. It's a shame that in so many states the same right isn't extended to same-sex couples. We really wanted to get a license in California, where up until one week ago they granted same-sex couples the right to marry, because to us equality for all is an important part of our belief system and it's something we want to pass onto Nayeli. Unfortunately, Proposition 8 was accepted by a little more than half of California's population, so there went our chance to get a license in a state not tainted by prejudice....we know that in Arizona same-sex unions would not be allowed because of how conservative this state is. We hope that we can still play some form of activist role in the future in this matter, but for now we had to do what was most practical for us and get the "piece of paper" in Prescott.


Oh, by the way, feel free to send any congratulatory gifts via USPS, FedEx, or UPS to our home and/or make out all personal checks to Joseph Devine & Anna Benitez:) LOL hehehehe

4 comments:

Whatz Up With Tessa said...

Congrats! And...."officially" welcome to the family Anna! Hugs!

The Devine Woods Family! said...

Could of called your sister! Love to hear about it over the internet! Family should be notified before others! Congrats :-D Love you both!

The Devine Woods Family! said...

Love you both! Your a mommy and a daddy! Congrats. I want to hear all about it! :-D

Rachel Vos Carrillo said...

It is kind of funny you all got married. Never thought you would. But it really doesnt matter one way or another. Where is Nayeli? Was she born on our birthdays' Joe?